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Sephora Inside JCPenney Must-Have Valentine’s Day Fragrances

I’ve never been a big Valentine’s Day girl –not a big chocolate fan, I hate roses, and I prefer to be showered in love every day of the year versus one day of the year. But one thing I do love is to be pampered and thought of, immensely. If you know me, you know I’m a bit of a fragrance snob, and I love falling in love with new scents.

Cute story, my grandmother always told me that a woman should never buy her own perfume; instead it should be given to her by someone who loves her and wants to be close enough to smell her aura. I really hold that philosophy to heart, and ever since I learned that life lesson, I’ve never purchased another bottle of perfume for myself again. I either purchase for others, or wait for someone to purchase for me. This year Valentine’s Day came early …

Sephora inside JCPenney has won me over with their elaborate selections of designer fragrances. It’s the perfect spin on Valentine’s Day gifts. This year I ditched the expensive chocolates, flowers, and teddy bears and grabbed a few fragrances that were a little more practical and function for my busy lifestyle.

The best part –YSL’s Black Opium, Versace Bright Crystal, and Philosophy’s Amazing Grace Ballet Rose are all perfect for transitioning into spring weather, and they come in rollerballs (which is perfect for travel!)

Not only are these babies a MUCH better gift option, you won’t find yourself wandering the aisles on picked-over cliché gifts; instead you can have a little ease knowing your last-minute shopping experience at Sephora inside JCPenney will be a breeze.

And if you’re still reading … I have a huge surprise: Y OU have a chance to win a $100 Sephora inside JCPenney Giftcard! I’m hosting a giveaway in collaboration with Sephora inside JCPenney on my Instagram page … so follow me HERE

Now you, too, can discover how practical finding essential skin and beauty products can be at your own local Sephora inside JCPenney!

To enter the giveaway simply: FOLLOW my Instagram page, tag 3 friends, and comment under the giveaway post sharing your favorite fragrance that Sephora inside JCPenney carries! Winner will be announced February 9, 2018.

*This blog post is in collaboration with Sephora inside JCPenney, all thoughts and opinions are my own. #SephoraInJCP

5 Steps For Feeling More Confident

For some reason, I’ve never struggled with confidence. Like most people I’ve doubted myself a few times here and there, but for the most part I’ve been a very confident individual. I truly believe that’s something that starts in the home. For as long as I can remember my family pushed me to be a leader, to never follow –but to always lead. In order to be a leader, you must be confident. …

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14 Life Lessons Learned In 2014

Screen Shot 2014-12-29 at 11.39.39 AMWhat a year! 2014 was a stern teacher, and I took excellent notes! I’ve learned so many life lessons this year … I’ve had so many immeasurable moments in which I both, failed and succeeded. I’m so thankful for the growth of my career and personal life. Life has truly taught me so much within these past 12 months, and I want to share the lessons I’ve learned.

  1. To Whom Much Is Given, Much Is Required. While I’m a firm believer in “you have not because you ask not,” I also quickly learned to be careful what you ask for because it just may happen; and when it happens … be ready to work your butt off! I prayed for growth in my career this year and when God answered, He answered with endless opportunities that required a lot of work. I had to learn that because I asked for it, it would require all of me. So I couldn’t half step with my work ethic.
  2. Let Go Of Those Who Don’t Elevate You. This year I went on a people-cleanse and removed those whom I felt weren’t elevating me from my life. I know it sounds harsh, but if the people you are surrounded by don’t challenge you or make you want more… then you should let them go. You don’t have to be mean and dismiss people, just simply stop coming around, they will notice, and there won’t be any love lost. Being a dream chaser is a full time job, and you have time for any additional set backs … If you’re chasing dreams then you should only surround yourself with other dream chasers. The saying, “you are the company you keep,” is so true in this case.
  3. The Only Thing Standing Between You & Opportunity, Is You. The beginning of 2014 was the one of the first times I truly worked for myself without doing other “side hustles.” I would often contemplate taking on new opportunities because I was afraid I would fail, or I was terrified of being told “no.” I had to teach myself that the only thing standing in my way, was me. I realized that the worst thing I could hear was “NO,” and if someone told me no… it wasn’t the end of the world. It just meant I needed to go back to the drawing board and find a new route.
  4. The Mind Is One Heck Of A Muscle. Our minds are so powerful … use it to your advantage. Speak things that are not as though they were, and watch your situation start changing. Remember, everything is connected. So if you start speaking, it will happen. But remember, point #1 … if you ask for it, be ready to work for it! 🙂
  5. You Can Get Money Back, You Can’t Get Time Back. I remember my Freshman year of college, my brother said something to me that I’ve always kept and applied to life. Like every other Freshman, my first year of college was filled with skipped classes, missed assignments and a lot of slacking off. My brother straightened me right up after my first semester of school, and it was simply because he was telling the truth. He told me … “You know what, Triena … you can drop all the classes you want … you can skip all the assignments there are, because truthfully … you can waste money, because you can get money back. Money comes and money goes … but you can’t afford to waste time; because you can’t get time back.” From that moment forward I’ve valued time, and I’ve always taken full advantage of the time that I have been given. From that moment in my freshman year of college when my brother checked me to now, I’ve always valued time. In any opportunity I try to maximize the amount of time I am given.
  6. Invest In Yourself. There’s no one more important in your life than you. Even if you’re a giver, and put other’s before you. Investing in yourself is one of the most important things you will ever do, because if you don’t take care of yourself, you won’t be around to take care of those who matter most to you.
  7. Finding Your Purpose Is An Ongoing Journey. It’s okay to not know everything. You aren’t suppose to know all the answers. Life is about connecting the dots so that you can figure out what and who you are. Try something new, if it’s for you then keep going in that direction, if it’s not then start over. Don’t get caught up in your age, or obligations, there are no excuses when it comes to purpose seeking! Your purpose usually lies within the things you enjoy doing, so start there.
  8. Praise Your Successes, But Don’t Get Caught Up In Them. We often forget to pat ourselves on the back, and truthfully we deserve to be noticed. A lot of us get so caught up in completing long term goals that we don’t see the smaller things we’ve succeeded or accomplished in until they have passed us by. So it’s okay to stop what you’re doing and evaluate yourself. Praise yourself in the things you’ve successfully done; but work hard to not get caught up in success …because you still have work to do.
  9. Make Time To Live A Simple Life. Social media and technology have ruined us! We can’t live without snapping pictures or catching video with hopes that they go viral. I work in the wonderful world of social media, but I have learned there has to be an off-button in order to remain balanced, because you can easily get consumed in the hype. Make time, little by little, to let go of all the tech savvy things we have going on in our lives, and live simply by just being in the moment. Try not to capture a moment with your camera and just enjoy what is going on around you … it’s so refreshing.
  10. Friends Are Seasonal, It’s Okay To Move On. At the beginning of 2014 I broke up with one of my closest friends, a friend I had since Kindergarden. Actually, she was more like my sister than a friend; and it hurt, it hurt really bad. I realized, a lot of our friendship in our ladder years was merely because we were just use to being friends because we had been friends for so long! But we had no substance. There was nothing nurturing about our friendship; in fact, it was very toxic. So I let go … I let go of a 22-year friendship, with one of the most important people in my life. And I must say, it’s one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. If I can let go of someone that important to me, you can too… if you’re in dead relationships, let them go. Free yourself!
  11. Just Before You Give Up, Try To Keep Going. I always tell people, the moment you give up is usually the moment just before something amazing happens. So before you throw in the towel, push on just a little longer … I bet you’ll be glad you didn’t quit.
  12. There’s A Lesson In Failure. Failure is one of our best teachers and we should be thankful for it; because truthfully nothing magical happens in success. Success is really just a stamp of approval, or that big shiny gold sticker you get when you do something right … but you don’t learn anything from it. You learn from your mistakes, your mistakes help you succeed. You are made in your failures… Don’t be afraid of it. Fail, and try again, fail, and try again … keep failing until you succeed. Like the saying, “Fall 7 times, Stand up 8.”
  13. Forgiveness Is A Gift To Yourself. I had to learn the power of forgiveness; not for the person who hurt me, but for my own sanity because I owed myself that reward. “Forgiveness is me giving up my right to hurt you for hurting me. Forgiveness is the final act of love.” – Beyonce
  14. Just Keep Going! It gets hard, it gets hectic, it gets crazy … and sometimes we lose ourself; but this thing called life is an amazing journey of self-taught lessons and endless adventures … create a life you love, despite your circumstances. You can do it, I believe in you!

So 2015 … I’m ready to kick some butt! Here’s to an amazing year full of prosperity, good health, manifestation, adventure, love, light and laughter!

J.deyawn Dishes On Wedding Etiquette

Screen Shot 2014-06-08 at 10.33.26 PMAs spring and summer rolls in, many are busy planning beach vacations, preparing for concerts, (Hello “On the Run” Tour) and getting ready for family reunions. Spring and warmer weather brings about love, and love usually brings about marriage.
I’m on the invite list for two weddings this year, one I’m a participant and the other I will be a guest, luckily, seeing that they’re only 2 weeks apart!!

There are tons of books and sites full of “what not to forget'” and “to-do” information for the Bride & Groom, but has anyone thought of the etiquette of a guest? Being a guest at a wedding requires much more than just showing up. As the couple prepares for what will probably be the most important day of their lives there are a few things that guests must remember to make the day as pleasant as possible for the Mr & Mrs. Maybe I’m a sticker for tradition and etiquette, (hey, I’m southern born and bred), but it’s just rude when guests fail to realize that the day isn’t about them.
Here are 4 things that are a “must remember” for guests who have the honor of attending these much planned ceremonies.
1. DRESS ACCORDINGLY
What you wear is completely dependent on the time of the wedding. You don’t want to show up over or under dressed. My mom has always said “there are two things you dress up for; weddings and funerals” so I tend to come always over dressed. Afternoon weddings are usually more casual that evening weddings. This may seem small, but pictures last forever. I would hate to be the one in the maxi sundress standing next to cocktail dresses and black tuxes….
2. RSVP
It’s a french term, Respondez S‘il Vous Plait, which means Respond Please. This is extremely important and painstakingly irritating when guests don’t bother or forget. If the bride and groom request an RSVP, please be courteous and send one back by the requested time. RSVPs are requested for multiple reasons, the most important one that I can think of is because of food. Food is an extremely important part of the wedding budget. Some couples purchase reception food by the plate. How embarrassing is it to not have enough food because 15 people decided not to RSVP. Don’t be one of those people.
3. SHOW UP ON TIME
Nothing is worse than creeping in after the wedding has started. It will probably be really quiet and emotional and here you come in, 30 minutes late, disruptive. I’ve been to several weddings that will not let you in after the ceremony has started (I totally agree with this). The last thing you want to tell the bride is that you missed the wedding because you were not on time.
4. BRING A GIFT
If the couple was thoughtful enough to include you in their big day, please be thoughtful enough to bring a gift. The couple will most likely be registered somewhere. If they take time to register, it’s probably for a reason. USE THE REGISTRY. It tells you, item by item, what the couple needs. If this is a last minute gift, opt for a gift card. It isn’t as thoughtful, but accepted. Please don’t be the guest who’s on time, looks amazing, has RSVP’d but shows up without a gift.
This is just a small list that is important for those attending the wedding. I’m sure there are plenty more out there. Have you been to a wedding when guest violated these rules? Speak up! Add to my list!
Until Next Time
J.deyawn

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